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Hey Coach

Posted by beth

Date Added: February 4th, 2008

I’m a soccer coach.  For those in the know, I coach a u10 girls team made up mostly of 8 year old girls.  We are a young and inexperienced team.  My goal is to instill in them  a love of the game, for them to learn the basics of ball handling, and  for them to want to  WIN.  Yes, I did say WIN, and it’s not a dirty word.  I want to bring winning back to the fore front.  I know people say it shouldn’t be about winning, it should be about fun.  Well, who said winning isn’t fun?  I do love my team and the kids are great.  But I am also very competitive.  I would love to say that I’ve outgrown some of my competitiveness, but I haven’t!!  Anyway, during one of our first games, we were down 4 goals.  I send in a sub, and as a girl comes off the field, she says to me, “Hey coach?”  Only partially listening because I’m focused on the field, I respond “What’s up?”  Thinking she is going to give me some gem of an item I could use to catch up and secure a win.  Innocently enough she says “Look over there, coach.  My American Girl Doll is watching the game.”   I hope my face didn’t give the look of pure astonishment that I was feeling at the time.  I simply replied, “Coach is kind of watching the game honey.”  I don’t know who’s chicken pucker moment that was… I was feeling kind of puckered myself!! 

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